abuse of male child, the eight effects and dangers to the family and the society

Eight effects of being abused as a male child I have read on the social media, on several occasions, about teenagers who were sexually abused by women; old enough to be there mother; but the reactions coming from the masses were not always impressive. Instead of the commenters to condemn the act, point blank, as bad as it is, they were busy hailing the minor of enjoying the sex, which in the real sense, was an act of abuse. When a male minor is being abused sexually the society sees it as an enjoyment for the young male, but when a female is being abused the society sees it as a real child abuse. Why is our society so partial, about their judgment on both male and female minor sexual abuse? Why isn’t a lot of people championing the campaign for the abuse of young male child? There are psychological and social consequences for male children who were being abused. The worst of the consequences is injustice, every male child that was being abused deserved justice. Sweeping it under the carpet is detrimental to our society; because why? These children, will one day grow up to become an adult. Who will live with the bad effect of the scares of the abuse; and the society in general will bear the brunt of the effect; which they could have mitigated but they chose to give it deaf ears. The following are the side effects the child has to live with all his life, unless he got a psychological evaluation and therapy. Higher libido; do you wonder why some men grew up, having more sexual drive, than others? Abuse could be one of the major factors. Regular and early life practices causes dependency. Most of these children, were being abused at a tender age, by multiple older women; till they grow up, thinking that it is a vital way of life. And at this juncture, it becomes almost impossible for them to live without it. Most of these kids learn sex education by practical; they become even professionals even before they come of age to be taught about sex education. So my question is, how can such kids have control over their libido, since sex, was part of life, taught to them, at their tender age? Loving older women; have you ever come across such young adults that says that they are more attracted to older women? So. Does it sound weird to you? Don’t you think something must have triggered such a reckless choice? I don’t think they are normal, so. After seeing all these young succulent single young girls, and one small boy will be craving for an old married woman. Tender age incessant child abuse might be one of the causes of this. No drive for relationship; men who were abused at their tender age grew up finding it very hard to maintain a healthy relationship. This is because, all they knew that could exist between a man and woman is sex and nothing more. And they grew up with the lifestyle imbedded in their subconscious mind. Such men doesn’t know how to be responsible for their lover. Since all their lives; older women has always been the one to take care of their emotional and physical needs. Hardly feel love from the opposite sex; to this breed, they don’t feel love, they are the most selfish people you can ever met. All they feel is lust. Early child abuse made them that way, wanting nothing from a woman than sexual satisfaction. Lacking self-control over their libido; most of them at a tender age, might start molesting smaller kids, practicing what they learnt from their abusers. You know? Bad things, is easier to learn and practiced than good manners. And this stays with them even as they grew older. Some of them might resort to rape, when they can’t find the means to satisfy their higher sexual drive which has been built over the years. They are practically sex monsters. Knowing too much about having sexual intercourse at the tender age; they tend to know more than their age. And you know; anything you know if not properly managed might destroy you. And knowing too much about adult life style with no one to direct you can lead to self-destruction. They might be infected with venereal diseases or even HIV/AIDs; some of this minors has being infected with venereal diseases in the cause of their being abused by their predators. Lacking in morality.

Morality is something that is learnt and practiced, how can these set of kids be morally upright when an adult who is old enough to be their mother is the one abusing them? Being sexually abused as a male child is a big dent on the morality. Some of them find it so hard to forgive themselves even though they are not directly responsible for their life of sin. And when they eventually learnt that they have being doing the wrong thing all the way, they stay all through broken, with no societal helping hands to lift them off the pit they plunged into by their abusers. And the dent is big enough to assassinate their conscience. Since some of them thinks that their sin is irreversible. The guilt alone, wouldn’t let them move forward in their quest for spiritual growth.