Ways to dictate if you have spiritual husband or spiritual wife Spiritual spouse is one of the mysteries that is ravaging many marriages. Many never believed it exists. And they are the one that suffer greatly from it. This very article is meant to open your eyes, and to reveal to you how actually to find out if you have one. Holy bible recorded the existence of a stubborn spiritual husband called Asmodeus in the book of Tobit 3:8-17, according to the story in the book of Tobit, Sarah was married for seven times and the demon which possed her body, killed the seven husbands before they would even consummate the seven different marriages. These happened until Sarah raised her hand in prayer, and Arch Angle Raphael Intervened and she was delivered from the demon. It was also recorded in Mathew, 22:23-34. Mostly; in the African traditional religion, the spiritual husband or wife is believed to come from marine kingdom.  These are how to know if you have one. Not in-tuned with the oppo...

Think about these before you jump into divorce Marriage has never been an easy task from the get-go. A union between two adults from different background, orientation, value-system, worldview, social status, personality, exposure, level of spirituality, understanding, and etc. Marriage requires a lot of hard work from the both parties. Marriage is not a child’s play. It requires a deep commitment and total surrender. Many people does not seem to know the level of commitment and responsibility that is required of them in marriage before they said I do, that is why, immediately they get in, having seen the work they have to do on daily bases to stay married, they want to get out of it without a sober reflection on the ethics and values of the union called marriage. And the following is what you need to consider before you hit the divorce button. Is my life under threat if I continue in the marriage?  Is your partner assaultive or violent is he or she always assaulting you physica...

How to spot the relationship that will break up soon Some relationship lasts while some does not last. Some is like is like heavenly made; while some is full of strive, abuses, assaults, and heavily lacking in love and tender care. The following are the signs that a particular relation will not last.   Still flirting with the opposite sex; if your partner does not respect you enough to stick to only you, there is a tendency that the relationship will not take long before it come crashing. Respect is one of the vital features of a relationship that will last long.  Does not care about my personal wellbeing ; one of the signs that indicates that a relationship will last long is when the partners got each other back. Taking each other wellbeing serious. Any relationship where the partners do not care about themselves is like a mansion with a shallow foundation, small breeze can end it.  Too busy for me ; anyone who gen...

I think my husband is cheating on me; how can I make him to love only me? Cheating is an act of betrayal and lustfulness. It is a disease, as deadly as cancer. In marriage, cheating is forbidden, sinful, rotten, evil and unacceptable. But my generation sees cheating as a common thing, a way of life. So they do it without thinking about the heinous consequences is carries. It’s like we are sugar coating cheating, it is not called cheating in marriage, it is called; adultery. Adultery is gotten from the word adulteration, which mean, loosing value from the originality. Adultery is bad before God and man. Be it from the man or the woman. It is ungodly, demeaning. So why do men and women cheat on their spouse? And how do we manage it? People cheat for different reasons, but no matter the reason you are cheating on your spouse you are just selfish. You consider yourself, and yourself alone, you don’t just care about your partner. Why not talk about it, instead of resorting to cheating on...

`How I got my secretive husband opened up A lot of women today are complaining that their husband is not telling them everything they needed to know. Even, undermining the fact they have lived together for a couple of years and have born for them wonderful children. My question is, why do a good number of men keep secrets from their wives? Was family meant to function that way? Coming to the first question, why do men keep secrets from their wives? The number one answer is, insecurity. Most men are not secure with their wives about so many things; they believed that their wives can cheat on them anytime. They believed that, should their wife have access to their money, they will steal it. Most women don’t even know how rich their husband is, this is because, the man kept it away from them, thinking that if the wife happens to know how rich he is, she will be demanding much to spend extravagantly. Most men, keep their properties and investments away from the knowledge of their wives, ...

My wife is keeping bad female friends and it is destroying our home The problem you are having in your home might be, as a result of the bad female friends, who have negative influence on your dear wife. The wives of this this generation are so damn stubborn, they will look their husband in their eyes and said, ‘’I won’t do that’’ and that is final. To some men, that means ‘war’’ while to some; the man makes few leaps and realized that he doesn’t want problem in his home, so he let it lie. And the woman will be one-side feeling pompous. Wife respect your man. Man love your wife. There is no need, trying to prove who is the most powerful in the family. The man might be wrong, the woman might be right. And that is why family needs communication. As husband and wife, there is no other best thing to do than to communicate. Communication is very important in the family. Man; It could be lack of communication that made your wife to have many bad friends who advices her wrongly outside. An...

My husband comes home every night late and drunk and its killing me slowly We been married for eight years now, and our marriage is being blessed with fruit of the womb, two boys and one girl. I and my husband dated for about three years before the marriage. I think I knew him in and out, he practically told me everything. He never keeps secret from me. And this was one of the major reasons why I loved Ebuka. Even after we got married, he never desists from telling me things about his private life. Or, is there supposed to be anything privacy in marriage? Well, to Ebuka such thing like privacy does not exist in marriage. He told me virtually everything- I knew the password to all of his ATM cards, I have the password to his social media apps, I can comfortably log into any of them with my own phone, and the most amazing part of it all is that immediately we got married, he made me the next of kin to all of his assets and bank accounts. As if that was not enough. Wh...

When should I start giving my children sex education? As soon as your child can talk, identify objects, and understand instructions, that’s the perfect time to start giving them sex education; but not in details, at this stage, you need to show them the private parts of their bodies, and tell them what it is being called, and warn them sternly should anyone touches their private parts, they should report to you. That should be your first stage of sex education. And you have to warn them, not to play with their sex organ or touch anyone’s own, you have to make them understand that it is a taboo for them to touch someone’s private’s part or for anyone else to touch their own without their permission. And, if you have a daughter or daughters, you needed to be more careful handling them, you need to do a lot of work looking out for them. It is unacceptable for the opposite sex adult to call your daughter my wife, or to carry her in his laps. Some men are sick in the head. They don’t des...

Generally, women are being referred to, as the weaker sex. And this tag can be visibly seen from the physical aspect of mankind, which comprises both the male and the female gender. Physically, men are by far stronger than women. But women has their own strength though, that man cannot contest. But we are not here today to talk about who is stronger between man and woman. We are here to talk about why female child should be given more attention in the family. Girl child are so fragile; evaluate , the toughness, between your female and male children, you will come to notice that female children are more fragile, than their male counterpart. And, that starts from their physical appearance. Female children are softer in appearance, than the male. And that softness is what you are meant to protect in her. Don’t ever, let her, lose that touch of softness. Women are better kept soft, than hard heartedness. A hardened woman does not think twice, their mind is always determined and made up....

Eight effects of being abused as a male child I have read on the social media, on several occasions, about teenagers who were sexually abused by women; old enough to be there mother; but the reactions coming from the masses were not always impressive. Instead of the commenters to condemn the act, point blank, as bad as it is, they were busy hailing the minor of enjoying the sex, which in the real sense, was an act of abuse. When a male minor is being abused sexually the society sees it as an enjoyment for the young male, but when a female is being abused the society sees it as a real child abuse. Why is our society so partial, about their judgment on both male and female minor sexual abuse? Why isn’t a lot of people championing the campaign for the abuse of young male child? There are psychological and social consequences for male children who were being abused. The worst of the consequences is injustice, every male child that was being abused d...

The unsuspected people that can sexually abuse your male child In the world full of pervert and child molesters, one has to perpetually put his or her child in check, knowing fully well that the world is full of sick people; who seek to satisfy their sexual urge in the wrong places and wrong ways. In whatever you do, you must know this, all of us are not healthy, mentally. You might be mentally okay, but your neighbor might not be. Just because he or she makes a lot of sense each time you guys talk, you think he or she has a sound-mind, you must be kidding me. Out of trust, many moms and dads, has destroyed the lives of their children in the hands of pervert aunties and uncles. The most annoying part of it is that the society has gone crazy, because a good number of people thinks that male child cannot be abused because they don’t have hymen which can be broken in the cause of penetration. Male child abuse has never been a news sensation; and the society ha...

How to break away from toxic friends A good friendship, is a vital part of human social life. Life would be monotonous and boring without a friendship. A good friend can turn your darkness into brightness. While a bad friend can turn your sunshine into darkness. Some people keep coming out and going into friendship that was not meant to be in the first place. They are people you should have never addressed as friends in the first place. They better remain acquaintance they were meant to be in the first place. And this is absolutely where a lot of people get it all wrong-calling an acquaintance a friend. Who is a friend, and who is an acquaintance. Answer this questions in your head. Wouldn’t it be better, that you called some people who have hurt you real bad in the past a friend-enemy instead of friend? Friend; ‘’a friend is someone who knows you and understand you a lot, and who you know and understand a lot, but must not be a member of your fam...

At what age should a child be given a smartphone? The importance of phone cannot be over-emphasized, but it still has its own dark sides, does and don’ts. Every manufactured item has its own manual, which, when you go against it, you must be expecting chaos. And that is how it is with phones, when it goes to the wrong hands which can be characterized by age and experience. Many adults are still finding it hard to manage the way they use their phones; to prevent it from affecting them in a negative way. Misuse of phone, can affect one in a negative way. So many people are on therapy, battling on how to curtail smartphones addiction and other vices that comes with it. Having considered what the adults are finding so difficult to manage, imagine what it will do to the children and the teenagers. Parenting isn’t a child’s play. Every parent should always think for their children, and put them through, in all aspects of life. As a mother or a father, jus...

How to leave and overcome phone addiction Few decades ago, the use of cell phone was not in vogue like it is in this 21st century. The few privileged home were able to connect with families and friends with land phones, while phone booths scattered all over the streets. In those era, the use of phones was primarily, for only call making. People do not spend much time with their phones. They can only use the phone only when they want to call someone, or when someone called them. But today, the narratives has changed. Phone, has become an important part of man. It’s almost that man cannot do without their cell phone. No doubt, the improvement in the line of technology, has helped improved the means of communication immensely, through the production of smart phones. Today so many electronic gadget which could originally be produced on its own is today infused into one single gadget called cell phone. With the help of ‘’Operating System’’ in our cell phones, we can access other devices wit...

Five major steps of becoming a successful musician successful musician Music is everything about life, music is about the story of life and everything in the universe. It is an important part of existence. Man cannot do without music. And without music in this world, man would become beasts, because there would be nothing to feed their hungry souls and spirits. That’s why some said that music is the food of the soul. Anyone can sing, once you can talk, you can sing and become successful in your musical career, being successful in your musical career, does not depend on your natural sweet voice. It depends on what you know, and the work you have to put through to be a better musician. If you are looking for the ways to improve in your musical career and get a head of time; know all you need to know earlier at the beginning of your journey as an aspiring musician. Or you have striving with music without making any headway this page is for you. The following are the steps to achieving y...