Why we must pay more attention to the female child in the family

Generally, women are being referred to, as the weaker sex. And this tag can be visibly seen from the physical aspect of mankind, which comprises both the male and the female gender. Physically, men are by far stronger than women. But women has their own strength though, that man cannot contest. But we are not here today to talk about who is stronger between man and woman. We are here to talk about why female child should be given more attention in the family. Girl child are so fragile; evaluate, the toughness, between your female and male children, you will come to notice that female children are more fragile, than their male counterpart. And, that starts from their physical appearance. Female children are softer in appearance, than the male. And that softness is what you are meant to protect in her. Don’t ever, let her, lose that touch of softness. Women are better kept soft, than hard heartedness. A hardened woman does not think twice, their mind is always determined and made up. This is what nature has made it to be. Most people believe that women are uncontrollable when they lose their cool, they don’t have that part of inner mind that can convince them to retreat. And because, they are fragile, we as parents need to protect them with everything we have got, so that the bad ones in the society doesn’t bully them. As a couple, you need to watch your children closely, but your daughters, passionately closely; So that, they don’t fall into the wrong peoples who might break them to pieces. Teenage pregnancy; it is alarming, the rate, at which teenagers got pregnant. The parent are the one who suffer mostly, ranging from the societal shaming and financial responsibilities. For this reasons; parents should be more careful, taking care of their teenage daughters, so that their daughters don’t get children out of wedlock. As a parent; you should know who your daughters keep as friends, both girls and boys. And it is also your duty, to notice when your daughter started behaving strangely. In this world of social media, where a lot of children are unruly. You as a parent should be able to manage and cut their excesses. Sexual abuse or rape; children are dependent on their parent, while most teenagers are naïve. You should be careful who you give your children to look after, or they might end up being abused. So also to your teenage daughter, you should be able to guide them, in the way you can, so that they don’t go to the wrong places where they might end up being raped. You should be responsible for who your daughter visits or where they go. Imagine your 15 years old daughter telling you that she has to attend her class mate’s birthday party. And the girl in question happens to be whom you have never met before. How do you handle such a situation, would you allow her to go or not? I guess the answer should be no. The love you gave her, she will give back to her family; women helps in shaping the world to a better place. They got this magical wand from God to touch anything and watch it turn to their desired shape, and that is reflective of the fact that they are the one whom children learn from, most children became what their mother taught them to be. Bear it in mind that the love and attention you gave to your daughter is what they will give back to their children. They will do even better than you. They are moved by what they see; since, all that glitters is not gold. And the world is filled with deceiving sights, you need to warn your female children about deceiving sights of this world. The mirage that come as a bait. If you don’t tell them early enough, they might be victims.

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