how i got my secretive husband opened up

`How I got my secretive husband opened up A lot of women today are complaining that their husband is not telling them everything they needed to know. Even, undermining the fact they have lived together for a couple of years and have born for them wonderful children. My question is, why do a good number of men keep secrets from their wives? Was family meant to function that way? Coming to the first question, why do men keep secrets from their wives? The number one answer is, insecurity. Most men are not secure with their wives about so many things; they believed that their wives can cheat on them anytime. They believed that, should their wife have access to their money, they will steal it. Most women don’t even know how rich their husband is, this is because, the man kept it away from them, thinking that if the wife happens to know how rich he is, she will be demanding much to spend extravagantly. Most men, keep their properties and investments away from the knowledge of their wives, because, they believed that their wives can kill them at the slightest provocation to inherit those properties. Could this be the reason most husbands refused to tell their wives that he has just bought an acre of land somewhere in the suburb. Could that be the reason why the husband couldn’t tell the wife that he has a huge amount of money in the back. Could that be the reason why husband cannot make his own wife the next-of-kin to his wealth and investment? Stick around we will find out later. And to the next question; was family meant to function that way? No, the family is not meant to function that way except the woman has a questionable character. So, does it mean that any woman whose husband keeps secret from has a questionable character? No, not all. Then who should we blame? We should blame both the husband and the wife. Either of them is failing in their duty; or the both of them is wrong. In any home where the husband feels insecure to tell his wife how reach or poor he is, that family has a problem. A man should confide in his wife a whole lot. Let those he withheld from her be the one she cannot handle. It’s even better for you as a man to marry a bad woman, if you are doing a dirty business so that she can defend and keep your secret. The following steps, are how you crack open your man, to opening up to you. Make amendment in your life. Your husband’s behavior towards you might be reflective of how you treat him. This is one secret about men. These creature are easy to control. But first of all, you need to prove to them that they can trust you. I am a man, I have heard a couple of my friends brag about their wives, my wife is this; my wife is that. My wife can do this, but she can never do that. How much is your husband proud of you. Can he brag with your name? Or are you among the kind that thinks that all men can be controlled with big ass and boobs. So they continue to mess themselves up thinking that they are messing the man up, in the long run, they will begin to complain that the man is keeping a lot of secret from them. Change. Make the man understand that you can handle situation, man’s life is hard; make him understand that you are as hard as a rock. Make him understand that you can fit in his realities. Men like women like that. Men like women who can give them advice, about though things, encircling their careers, business and endeavors. Try to fit in his shoes, you are his wife, you can do it. Give your man some financial advice. All that most women care about is their own personal need. They will be like, ‘’honey I need this, honey I need that’’ without caring to know how the honey make and sustain the money. Giving your man a financial advice is one way to his heart. Men like women tell them to save for the rainy days. If you are the kind that always want your man to be spending and anytime he is not spending on you, you will make his life a living hell. Try to be concentrate much on him investing, you will see that you are going to become one of his financial specialist. And if a man can share the knowledge of his money with you, then he can share anything with you. Take a good care of every single thing that he has; men like women who value their sweat no matter how little. Be the kind of woman that wants to protect everything your husband has jealously. It gives them sense of belonging that you can take over from him even when he is not there. And he will spill everything you need to know. Give him positive energy each time he is around you. This is one of hardest task for the women of this generation. They want to reap where they do not sow. how often do you give your husband positive vibes. Did he feel elevated when with you or downcast? You see; this is one of the little secrets that most women use, to hold their man to ransom. You will be thinking that they have cast a spell on their man, but, no, they didn’t cast any spell on the man, they were simply his joy giver. They don’t suffocate their men with negative energy no matter what. If you want your man to open up a lot to you, increase the tempo of his happiness each time he is with you. Men share a lot of their secret when they are happy. An angry man don’t talk, he is practically a philosopher. Follow the lead of your husband; some women are constantly in loggerhead with the opinions of their husband. They have made it their culture to fight with the man every time he gives instruction on how he wants things to be run in his home. How can the man you constantly fight with, be at peace with you to the extent of revealing to you his secrets. So, submit to your husband, disagree with him when its necessary. Don’t try to measure shoulders with him.