i think my husband is cheating on me; how do i make him love only me?

I think my husband is cheating on me; how can I make him to love only me? Cheating is an act of betrayal and lustfulness. It is a disease, as deadly as cancer. In marriage, cheating is forbidden, sinful, rotten, evil and unacceptable. But my generation sees cheating as a common thing, a way of life. So they do it without thinking about the heinous consequences is carries. It’s like we are sugar coating cheating, it is not called cheating in marriage, it is called; adultery. Adultery is gotten from the word adulteration, which mean, loosing value from the originality. Adultery is bad before God and man. Be it from the man or the woman. It is ungodly, demeaning. So why do men and women cheat on their spouse? And how do we manage it? People cheat for different reasons, but no matter the reason you are cheating on your spouse you are just selfish. You consider yourself, and yourself alone, you don’t just care about your partner. Why not talk about it, instead of resorting to cheating on your partner, or probably get a divorce, if what he did to you is unforgivable before God and man. If your husband is cheating on you, the following are how to manage him and probably change him to becoming a better person. Love his mom and siblings; most ladies come to marriage with the intention of fighting the family of their intended husband starting from their mother-in-law, down to his siblings and his other relations. What would be your gain, if you have fought off those that would speak senses into your husband when he starts misbehaving? The family of your husband, has a great role, when it comes to sanctioning your husband, if they are all united for you. Your husband will not mess up with you. Take it from me. Pray for him; God loves marriage, did you know why? If God did not love marriage, he wouldn’t have created Eve, he would have made Adams reproductive system asexual like plants and God has the capacity to do that. Since marriage is the product of God, pray, each time something goes wrong. Tell God in your prayers, the struggles, you are facing in your family. He will surely answer you. God has the ability of changing your adulterous husband to a faithful man, but first thing first, you have to lend God your knees, your tears and stand on the gap for your cheating husband for him to be saved before it is too late for him. Appear neat always; what did you think attracted you to your husband, before he proposed to marry you? , simple answer; it was how you were looking; how neat you were. Men hates dirty women, neatness doesn’t mean appearing expensive or flamboyant, no, that’s not what it means, appearing neat; simply means, washing the cloths you already have, ironing them if they were rumpled and putting them on. Most women, will spend the productive time of their youths praying for a husband, but immediately the man comes, they will turn around and relax. Appearing tattered and unkempt before the man they have prayed for. Their by subjecting those kind of men who cannot control themselves to looking outside. Stop being dirty and outdated, pick this line, appear neat and sexy before your husband and watch the magic. Even though, you will not be as sexy as you were, when the two of you met. But know this, men like women who are putting on effort to look good for them. That little effort might, enchant him, and hold him glued to your side as long as you try to look good for him. Seduce him always; it is in the nature of a woman to seduce men. So learn the art of seduction. Wake it up, it is one the gifts God has given to every woman. Those women your husband is flirting with outside are seductress. They do nothing but seduce men and bend them to their desires. Buy some seductive lingerie. Take your bath earlier enough, put them on with some sweet body spray, walk pass him giggling your backside. Men will always be men, he must surely look your way. Pull him off, from wherever he is, to the bedroom, and show him paradise. That’s the power of women, use it on your husband don’t let those small girls ruin your happiness. Keep your home clean; men like clean and neat environment, the reason why your husband doesn’t want to spend some time at home might be because, his house is so scattered and unarranged. Trying keeping your home neat and well arranged, you will see your husband always back early. Make his bedroom attractive and conducive; pay more attention to his bedroom, I believe; your husband’s bedroom is your bedroom, because, there is what you called your matrimonial bed. Men always want to stay in their bedroom. Always try to see it well kept and arranged. Learn to like his favorite TV program; this one of the ways that the two of you will be fond of each other. Just imagine, if your husband is a football person, and the two of you would sit and argue about who the best goal-keeper is. Give him a date/take him out; save little money, plan for a date, ask your husband out. Do this often, this would make him realize that you should be the only woman who he should be going on a date with. Just sit back and watch him, take over from you. He will now, want to show you some places you did not know that it exists in your city. Be patient with him; nothing is impossible and everything good takes time, be patient with your husband, don’t expect him to change immediately, I know that it is not easy, but, please maintain. Take it one step at a time. He would be the one to apologize to you, having understood how hard you have worked to keep your family together. Every man is not heartless and stupid, some still have blood flowing in their vein. Learn to be patience as you wait for him to change.