my wife is keeping bad female friends and it is destroying our home

My wife is keeping bad female friends and it is destroying our home

The problem you are having in your home might be, as a result of the bad female friends, who have negative influence on your dear wife. The wives of this this generation are so damn stubborn, they will look their husband in their eyes and said, ‘’I won’t do that’’ and that is final. To some men, that means ‘war’’ while to some; the man makes few leaps and realized that he doesn’t want problem in his home, so he let it lie. And the woman will be one-side feeling pompous. Wife respect your man. Man love your wife. There is no need, trying to prove who is the most powerful in the family. The man might be wrong, the woman might be right. And that is why family needs communication. As husband and wife, there is no other best thing to do than to communicate. Communication is very important in the family. Man; It could be lack of communication that made your wife to have many bad friends who advices her wrongly outside. And I bet you; it is not good for your family at all. If you can’t handle it now, when the walls came falling down, you will be the one to take the blame. Yes, you will take the blame, because you are being recognized by the society as the head of the family. Men keep bad friends, women keep bad friend too, but this article will be looking through the females windows. No doubts; many home breakers are out there; in the place of friends, to rip your home apart. They are bitter and broken women, who hate men, with all they have got. If you as a woman brings your husband’s issue before them they will eat him raw, flesh and bones. And you the husband, since it is about you. Would you keep quit and watch these women wreck your home and eat you up completely. These are what you should do to avoid being eaten raw by all of these angry feminist home destroyers out there. Tell her initially that you don’t want close friends; this is the beginning of the fall of most men. When they fail to talk about how close they want their beloved wife to be with their female friends. Women; watch out for those kind of women who wants to know everything about your home. Especially those ones that always asked you, how your husband takes care of you or if he is treating you bad. Hear this, there is darkness in their soul that they want unleashed in your humble home. And men watch out for those sneaky kind of your wife’s friends that snoops around everything about your home. Mentor your wife; most men don’t know that they become the father of the woman after marriage. Maybe if I should ask this simple question, what do the father do? A lot of people will literally say, ‘’provide for the family’’. But the father’s role is fare bigger than provision for the family. One the most tasking role of the father in the family apart from providing for the family needs is, mentorship. Most fathers lack the spirit of mentorship in their family, or maybe they don’t even know that the entire family looks up to him for mentorship, and when he is not there to mentor them; every one put head to wherever pleases them. And when this happens, he turns back to blame his family members, forgetting that he is the cause. You as a father- mentor your wife as a father would to his kids, make her become what you want her to become, it is your duty to do that. Don’t let some crazy jerk who don’t know the value of family do that for you. And to do that, you must be disciplined enough to lead the light, so that your wife will illuminate with you. Live by example, be what you want your wife to be. If you don’t want your wife to keep close female friends; please, you should not keep male close friends as well. Make out time for her; the truth is that loneliness has made a lot of women lost their ways. Are you the kind of man that is so busy and serious with money chasing, with no, or little time for your family? If you are; then, it is the time to turn back, place one hand on your chest and repeat after me ‘’lord, I am sorry, and I want to do it right this time’’ you don’t sacrifice your family on the platter of loneliness, simply because you are chasing money to carter for your family needs. Yes, it is very important to chase money, but don’t suffocate your family on the line. They need your attention and time too. They are part of your business and investment. And if your dare neglect them, believe me you will suffer for it. If you had made out time for your family, more especially your wife, maybe you would have killed the thirst of her trying to mingle with stranger outside, hopping they would have answers to her questions. Have you lost your mind? Don’t you know that you are the question and the answers she is seeking for the explanation outside, why not be there for her to ask and answer the question yourself? Communicate with your spouse; are you the kind that carry long face, each time your wife carries long face? If you are that kind of man, repeat after me, ‘’lord, am sorry, please forgive me, right now, I want to turn a new leaf’’ know this, women and men are not the same, women tend to use body language to communicate with their men. They want you to pet them, crack them open to know why they are sad; or behaving odd. So, if you see your wife carrying long face, and decided to reciprocate, you are not doing a good thing to the communication in your home. It is your duty as the man of the house to know why your wife is behaving strangely towards you, and you cannot achieve that without communication. Communication is something you build over the years. And no time is late to start cultivating the spirit of communication in your home. If you are kind that communicate effectively with your spouse, you will crack her open at all time, and be able to be ahead of her wrong moves. Having an effective communication with your spouse, scares home breakers away; because they will know that you are always there in the picture.