how to spot out the relationship that will break-up soon

How to spot the relationship that will break up soon

Some relationship lasts while some does not last. Some is like is like heavenly made; while some is full of strive, abuses, assaults, and heavily lacking in love and tender care. The following are the signs that a particular relation will not last.  

Still flirting with the opposite sex; if your partner does not respect you enough to stick to only you, there is a tendency that the relationship will not take long before it come crashing. Respect is one of the vital features of a relationship that will last long. 

Does not care about my personal wellbeing; one of the signs that indicates that a relationship will last long is when the partners got each other back. Taking each other wellbeing serious. Any relationship where the partners do not care about themselves is like a mansion with a shallow foundation, small breeze can end it. 

Too busy for me; anyone who genuinely loves you will never be too busy to connect with you no matter how tight his/her schedule is. Having time for your partner is one sign that indicates that the relationship will last. 

Too secretive; no one want’s to go far in a relationship with a secretive partner. A relationship that will last is the one that is built on trust and openness, if one is keeping a lot of secrete in a relationship that mean his/her partner will never trust the person; and it is not a sign of a healthy relationship. Keeping secret in a relationship brings about lack of trust, and when trust is taken out in a relationship, nothing else is remaining because every relationship is built on trust. 

Always complaining about every little thing; one the best ingredients in a relationship is tolerance. How much can you or your partner tolerate? Relationship is sweeter when the partner can look at issues that should have gotten them complaining but instead chose to overlook it because they realized that no one is perfect. 

Hides me from friends; any relationship where partners are not proud of each other, that relationship is bound to fail, partners should be proud to show off their heartthrob, except it is a mutual agreement to remain out of the public eyes. Anyone who hides you from his/her friends thinks that you are not the level of man/woman he or is supposed to be dating, you are just there to fulfil a temporal needs and when the right or ideal partner comes they will do away with you with thinking twice. 

Busy with phone even when we are together; this one of the most common in our today’s society. You can only be busy with your phone in the presence of your partner when the two of you is supposed to be having a conversation, if only you are not interested in him/her. 

Assaultive and abusive; it will not take time before any relationship that is abusive collapse, no one wants to be in an abusive relationship, how can you always physically assault your partner and expect him or her to stay? It is only those who do not know their worth that will stay in an abusive relationship. Abuse and assault is one sign of a failed relationship. 

Doesn’t give me gift no matter how little; people in a relationship is meant to exchange gifts, and the giving of the gift should come naturally from the heart. It doesn’t matter how much you have, the heart that really loves takes from the smallest he/she has got to give. If your relationship is lacking in giving then it has a problem. 

Talking down on me; if you have a partner and he/she is not holding you in high esteem, always degrading you in public and in private, tell me would you want to continue in that kind of relationship? The answer is no, because everyone wants a kind of relationship that will make him/her a better person not the kind that will downgrade one. 

Always comparing me with someone else; comparing your partner with someone else is like telling him/her that they are not good enough, it kills the receiver of the comparison psychologically, and it is not healthy in a relationship that is meant to stand the test of time to compare your partner with another person. 

Does not respect boundaries; just because you are in a relationship with someone does not mean that the person is now your slave, so therefore; you can do whatever you want with the person. Healthy relationship goes with respecting boundaries of your partner. 

Acting too important; always appreciate your partner, never take them for granted, don’t act too important to your partner, because if he/she is not dating you, someone better than you might be the one dating them. Acting too important in a relationship, kills the love that was supposed to be nurtured.