What should I do? I caught my best friend pants down with my 15 years old son. We were friends from childhood, through university and the struggles for survival as young adult. I never, looked at Linda's men, even though she was more lucky than me in getting loving and careering men. So, why would she ruin my only sons life? Why? I am a single parent, I had john, when I was 16, the dad denied the pregnancy, I suffered abuses and humiliation, from friends and family, but my poor mother stood by me, collected the baby from me, and looked after him, while I further my education. Linda saw all my struggles and how suitors rejected me because I had John in my teen. Linda is married with a 3 years old daughter, her husband is based abroad and comes back once in a while. I am a banker, while she works with the ministry of agriculture in the state government. Because she closes work earlier, my John always go to her house after school, while I pick him up in the evening after work. This...

Generally, women are being referred to, as the weaker sex. And this tag can be visibly seen from the physical aspect of mankind, which comprises both the male and the female gender. Physically, men are by far stronger than women. But women has their own strength though, that man cannot contest. But we are not here today to talk about who is stronger between man and woman. We are here to talk about why female child should be given more attention in the family. Girl child are so fragile; evaluate , the toughness, between your female and male children, you will come to notice that female children are more fragile, than their male counterpart. And, that starts from their physical appearance. Female children are softer in appearance, than the male. And that softness is what you are meant to protect in her. Don’t ever, let her, lose that touch of softness. Women are better kept soft, than hard heartedness. A hardened woman does not think twice, their mind is always determined and made up....

Eight effects of being abused as a male child I have read on the social media, on several occasions, about teenagers who were sexually abused by women; old enough to be there mother; but the reactions coming from the masses were not always impressive. Instead of the commenters to condemn the act, point blank, as bad as it is, they were busy hailing the minor of enjoying the sex, which in the real sense, was an act of abuse. When a male minor is being abused sexually the society sees it as an enjoyment for the young male, but when a female is being abused the society sees it as a real child abuse. Why is our society so partial, about their judgment on both male and female minor sexual abuse? Why isn’t a lot of people championing the campaign for the abuse of young male child? There are psychological and social consequences for male children who were being abused. The worst of the consequences is injustice, every male child that was being abused d...

The unsuspected people that can sexually abuse your male child In the world full of pervert and child molesters, one has to perpetually put his or her child in check, knowing fully well that the world is full of sick people; who seek to satisfy their sexual urge in the wrong places and wrong ways. In whatever you do, you must know this, all of us are not healthy, mentally. You might be mentally okay, but your neighbor might not be. Just because he or she makes a lot of sense each time you guys talk, you think he or she has a sound-mind, you must be kidding me. Out of trust, many moms and dads, has destroyed the lives of their children in the hands of pervert aunties and uncles. The most annoying part of it is that the society has gone crazy, because a good number of people thinks that male child cannot be abused because they don’t have hymen which can be broken in the cause of penetration. Male child abuse has never been a news sensation; and the society ha...

How to break away from toxic friends A good friendship, is a vital part of human social life. Life would be monotonous and boring without a friendship. A good friend can turn your darkness into brightness. While a bad friend can turn your sunshine into darkness. Some people keep coming out and going into friendship that was not meant to be in the first place. They are people you should have never addressed as friends in the first place. They better remain acquaintance they were meant to be in the first place. And this is absolutely where a lot of people get it all wrong-calling an acquaintance a friend. Who is a friend, and who is an acquaintance. Answer this questions in your head. Wouldn’t it be better, that you called some people who have hurt you real bad in the past a friend-enemy instead of friend? Friend; ‘’a friend is someone who knows you and understand you a lot, and who you know and understand a lot, but must not be a member of your fam...

At what age should a child be given a smartphone? The importance of phone cannot be over-emphasized, but it still has its own dark sides, does and don’ts. Every manufactured item has its own manual, which, when you go against it, you must be expecting chaos. And that is how it is with phones, when it goes to the wrong hands which can be characterized by age and experience. Many adults are still finding it hard to manage the way they use their phones; to prevent it from affecting them in a negative way. Misuse of phone, can affect one in a negative way. So many people are on therapy, battling on how to curtail smartphones addiction and other vices that comes with it. Having considered what the adults are finding so difficult to manage, imagine what it will do to the children and the teenagers. Parenting isn’t a child’s play. Every parent should always think for their children, and put them through, in all aspects of life. As a mother or a father, jus...

How to leave and overcome phone addiction Few decades ago, the use of cell phone was not in vogue like it is in this 21st century. The few privileged home were able to connect with families and friends with land phones, while phone booths scattered all over the streets. In those era, the use of phones was primarily, for only call making. People do not spend much time with their phones. They can only use the phone only when they want to call someone, or when someone called them. But today, the narratives has changed. Phone, has become an important part of man. It’s almost that man cannot do without their cell phone. No doubt, the improvement in the line of technology, has helped improved the means of communication immensely, through the production of smart phones. Today so many electronic gadget which could originally be produced on its own is today infused into one single gadget called cell phone. With the help of ‘’Operating System’’ in our cell phones, we can access other devices wit...