Think about these before you jump into divorce Marriage has never been an easy task from the get-go. A union between two adults from different background, orientation, value-system, worldview, social status, personality, exposure, level of spirituality, understanding, and etc. Marriage requires a lot of hard work from the both parties. Marriage is not a child’s play. It requires a deep commitment and total surrender. Many people does not seem to know the level of commitment and responsibility that is required of them in marriage before they said I do, that is why, immediately they get in, having seen the work they have to do on daily bases to stay married, they want to get out of it without a sober reflection on the ethics and values of the union called marriage. And the following is what you need to consider before you hit the divorce button. Is my life under threat if I continue in the marriage?  Is your partner assaultive or violent is he or she always assaulting you physica...

How to spot the relationship that will break up soon Some relationship lasts while some does not last. Some is like is like heavenly made; while some is full of strive, abuses, assaults, and heavily lacking in love and tender care. The following are the signs that a particular relation will not last.   Still flirting with the opposite sex; if your partner does not respect you enough to stick to only you, there is a tendency that the relationship will not take long before it come crashing. Respect is one of the vital features of a relationship that will last long.  Does not care about my personal wellbeing ; one of the signs that indicates that a relationship will last long is when the partners got each other back. Taking each other wellbeing serious. Any relationship where the partners do not care about themselves is like a mansion with a shallow foundation, small breeze can end it.  Too busy for me ; anyone who gen...

TYPES OF FAMILY PLANNING  LOW-DOSE COMBINED ORAL CONTRACEPTIVES  It is the method by which the woman takes pills, women who use oral contraceptives is meant to take pill each day. Combined oral contraceptive pill contains two hormones similar to the natural hormones in a woman’s body called an estrogen and a progestin. The method can also be called, combined pills, the pill or birth control pills. How the pills work in the body of a woman The pills work against ovulation, it stops ovulation, (that is, the release of eggs from ovaries) It makes cervical mucus thick, thereby making it almost impossible for the sperm to swim through. Disrupting an existing pregnancy is not part of their work. IS IT EFFECTIVE? Out of every hundred (100) women that use it in a year 6 -8 of them got pregnant. The effectiveness is top-notch when used correctly as being prescribed. 0.1 pregnancies per 100 women in first year of use (1 in every 1,000) TAKE NOTE. The pill should be taken every day t...

I think my husband is cheating on me; how can I make him to love only me? Cheating is an act of betrayal and lustfulness. It is a disease, as deadly as cancer. In marriage, cheating is forbidden, sinful, rotten, evil and unacceptable. But my generation sees cheating as a common thing, a way of life. So they do it without thinking about the heinous consequences is carries. It’s like we are sugar coating cheating, it is not called cheating in marriage, it is called; adultery. Adultery is gotten from the word adulteration, which mean, loosing value from the originality. Adultery is bad before God and man. Be it from the man or the woman. It is ungodly, demeaning. So why do men and women cheat on their spouse? And how do we manage it? People cheat for different reasons, but no matter the reason you are cheating on your spouse you are just selfish. You consider yourself, and yourself alone, you don’t just care about your partner. Why not talk about it, instead of resorting to cheating on...

`How I got my secretive husband opened up A lot of women today are complaining that their husband is not telling them everything they needed to know. Even, undermining the fact they have lived together for a couple of years and have born for them wonderful children. My question is, why do a good number of men keep secrets from their wives? Was family meant to function that way? Coming to the first question, why do men keep secrets from their wives? The number one answer is, insecurity. Most men are not secure with their wives about so many things; they believed that their wives can cheat on them anytime. They believed that, should their wife have access to their money, they will steal it. Most women don’t even know how rich their husband is, this is because, the man kept it away from them, thinking that if the wife happens to know how rich he is, she will be demanding much to spend extravagantly. Most men, keep their properties and investments away from the knowledge of their wives, ...

My wife is keeping bad female friends and it is destroying our home The problem you are having in your home might be, as a result of the bad female friends, who have negative influence on your dear wife. The wives of this this generation are so damn stubborn, they will look their husband in their eyes and said, ‘’I won’t do that’’ and that is final. To some men, that means ‘war’’ while to some; the man makes few leaps and realized that he doesn’t want problem in his home, so he let it lie. And the woman will be one-side feeling pompous. Wife respect your man. Man love your wife. There is no need, trying to prove who is the most powerful in the family. The man might be wrong, the woman might be right. And that is why family needs communication. As husband and wife, there is no other best thing to do than to communicate. Communication is very important in the family. Man; It could be lack of communication that made your wife to have many bad friends who advices her wrongly outside. An...

My husband comes home every night late and drunk and its killing me slowly We been married for eight years now, and our marriage is being blessed with fruit of the womb, two boys and one girl. I and my husband dated for about three years before the marriage. I think I knew him in and out, he practically told me everything. He never keeps secret from me. And this was one of the major reasons why I loved Ebuka. Even after we got married, he never desists from telling me things about his private life. Or, is there supposed to be anything privacy in marriage? Well, to Ebuka such thing like privacy does not exist in marriage. He told me virtually everything- I knew the password to all of his ATM cards, I have the password to his social media apps, I can comfortably log into any of them with my own phone, and the most amazing part of it all is that immediately we got married, he made me the next of kin to all of his assets and bank accounts. As if that was not enough. Wh...